Keith Davis' BLOG

Friday, October 14, 2005

Stress For Teens


I know this is a big time change in subject from spiders and windshields, but is it?

A couple of days ago I was reading a blog from our drum major at the high school where my daughters are in the drum line. He name is Jocelyn and she is a really sweet young lady and a fine Christian. In here blog(actually Zanga), she expressed a lot of pressure in her life. Everything from siblings to school to college--just so much pressure.

I spend a lot of time with the kids at the high school. I drive equipment trucks on the away games. I take lots of video footage for an end of the year video. My wife chaperones the trips. It really is a big part of our lives. It is a great organization.

Because I spend so much time with them, I see so many young people who are just stressed out--big time! I just think that is a shame. It should be one of the happiest times in their lives. I just mention this so that we can all be aware of this to the point that we listen, counsel, and in general, help these kids deal with pressure.

I think that we as adults tend to think that children, especially teens, do not want to hear what we have to say. This may be true for some, but I believe the great many of them not only need direction, but want it.

2 Comments:

  • Great subject Keith. The stress our children feel now days (in my opinion) is a result of several factors:
    1. The desire for “accountability.” Nothing wrong with this unless you have the system we have which would be politicians messing with an educational system that serves living, breathing beings we call children.
    2. The desire for our school systems to be like the ones in Europe and Asia.
    This next one I will gladly attribute to being a frustrated school teacher. Not frustrated with kids but rather with the system I’m forced to operate under.
    3. An over-arching plan by those (O.K., I’ll say it – Republicans) in power to eventually get government out of public education. The beauty of this plan – to continue to raise high stakes testing standards and requirements under the guise of “accountability” so as to reach a point where even the higher performing (I teach in the highest scoring school district in Florida) school districts will be unable to meet unrealistic standards.
    And let me add this caveat – I know how to operate under this kind of system. The school (middle school) that I teach at has made an “A” the last 4 years in a row under Gov. Bush’s grading system for schools. 98% of my kids last year made an average or higher score on the FCAT thus keeping them from losing their elective choices for the upcoming year. But due to NCLB, (No Child Left Behind) 7 of my students from last year have a 2 hour block of math (Algebra and “FCAT Remediation) instead of the elective they chose. These 7 students no doubt failed the reading porting of the test which by our requirements would force them into a 2 hour block of language arts, thus losing another elective choice. And, these 7 students had to attend summer school for FCAT remediation.

    And thus we have what we wanted, stressed out kids who for the most part, are unable to enjoy their childhoods.
    Thanks for letting me blow off steam.

    By Blogger cwinwc, at 12:38 PM  

  • Good thoughts. Giving direction (guidance) is an expression of love and care. Wanting direction (guidance) is an expression of love and trust.

    I'm glad you have the chance to be influential in the lives of these teens. You are truly on the front lines.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:21 PM  

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